In Bible times, childbearing was on of the most important purposes a woman had in life. Children carried on the family name and where viewed as evidence of God’s blessing. A woman who could not have children may have felt worthless and possibly unloved by God and others. Not only did a barren women have to deal with internal turmoil, she also most likely faced ridicule from others because people considered barrenness as a punishment for wrong living.
There are many instances of barrenness in the Bible. These women’s infertility seemed like an impossible problem and a huge road block for their futures. Whether we are experiencing barrenness or something else like joblessness, fear, sickness, or other situations, we can learn from their stories and apply it to our own seemingly impossible struggles.
THE IMPOSSIBLE SITUATIONS:
Sarah: God promised Abraham and Sarah as many descendants as there were stars in the sky. Yet Sarah was childless, and it seemed impossible that she would be able to conceive in her old age. (Genesis 12, 15-18, 21)
Rachel: Rachel’s and her sister, Leah’s, husband loved Rachel more. God saw this and allowed Leah to have children while Rachel remained childless. Rachel became jealous and discouraged by this situation. (Genesis 29-30)
Hannah: Hannah could not have children, while her husband’s other wife had many. She was very upset by this, and promised God that if He gave her a son, she would commit him to the Lord. (1 Samuel 1)
Here is a few Do and a Don’t learned from Sarah, Rachel, and Hannah- a few barren women in the Bible…
-> DO: Pray
Genesis 30:22, “Then God remembered Rachel’s plight and answered her prayers by enabling her to have children.”
Rachel was very discouraged by her infertility. Although she did let her frustrations overcome her for a moment (Genesis 30:1), she did the right thing by taking her struggle to God.
1 Samuel 1:15, “…I am very discouraged, and I was pouring out my heart to the LORD.”
Hannah took her heart- broken from being childless and harassed- to God. She pleaded with the Lord to give her the desires of her heart.
The right response to difficult situations is to ALWAYS go to God first. He is the one who made us and can do anything, why would we want to go anywhere else?!
He hears our prayers and answers them, “And we are confident that he hears us whenever we ask for anything that pleases him. And since we know he hears us when we make our requests, we also know that he will give us what we ask for” (1 John 5:14-15).
-> DON’T: Interfere
Genesis 16:2, “So Sarai said to Abram, ‘The LORD has prevented me from having children. Go and sleep with my servant. Perhaps I can have children through her.’”
Although God promised Abraham that he would be the father of a great nation, Sarah didn’t think she could make God’s plan happen, so she took matters into her own hands. Eventually, God did give Sarah a son- 25 years after He first made His promise to Abraham.
Genesis 30:3, “Then Rachel told him, ‘Take my maid, Bilhah, and sleep with her. She will bear children for me, and through her I can have a family, too.’”
Like Sarah, Rachel didn’t think God would allow her to have children, so she decided to make things happen on her own.
God didn’t need Sarah or Rachel to make His will happen. And He doesn’t need us to interfere and try to provide for our own needs/ make His plans happen in our situations either. We must trust that His timing is absolutely perfect, because it is!
In all of these women’s cases, God used their infertility to demostrate His power. And He is wanting to use our impossible-barren sitiuations to demonstrate His power, too!
So, let’s take what we’ve learned from these women and apply them to our own “barrenness,”
by PRAYING and BELIEVING.
What lesson relates to your life the most?
-Maybe you have a struggle in your life that you need to come to God with.
-Maybe you have already brought your needs to God, but then got tired of waiting and interfered.
If this is the case, you should ask for forgiveness and start believing!
Wherever you’re at right now, nothing is impossible for God, and He wants to do the impossible in our lives!
